I'll admit, there have been days that I feel like if I stop, I might never start back up again. Thank God these two are in my life to make sure that never happens!
It's interesting, but I recently met another momma that had to say goodbye to her baby. It was her first child. Her comment to me was: "I can't even imagine having to go on being a momma. When I was having a bad day I could just crawl in a hole. You can't do that."
From my perspective, I couldn't imagine not having these two. If crawling in a hole was an option, I might never come out.
I took about 4 weeks off of work after Baby Franklin was born. Was that the right amount of time? Who knows. There's no handbook for that. But in those 4 weeks I took advantage of every second. I tried to capture pictures of of the fun things that we did (can you believe that I had a list?!) - But I missed some of them. LIke the naps I took with the boys. Amazing.
Anyway, we did as many FUN things that we possibly could and I will always look back on this "leave" very fondly, despite the circumstances...
The Curious George exhibit at the Children's museum. (check!) |
The pool park (check!) |
Runs around Bredesen Park (check!) |
Fun with boxes (check!) |
Just hangin' (check!) |
Tractor rides in the 'burbs (check!) |
Visiting the wedding/reception site for Cara's big wedding next summer (check!) |
Free hats at the Edina parade on the 4th (check!) |
A fun summer drink - mango passionfruit margaritas (check!) |
Enjoying our new screened-in porch (everyone should have one of these). (check!) |
Up way past our bedtime, fireworks, and mosquito bites on the 4th (check!) |
Fun with our friends on the 4th (check!) |
Splash park (check!) |
A trip to the mall and our new visors. We wanna be just like Uncle Brent! (check!) |
Out for lunch (check!) |
Our doctor bracelets - checking out our kidneys (the u/s came back normal). (check!) |
Cara said "yes to the dress" (for real this time) and we celebrated with a fun boat drink (check!) |
The Zoo! (check!) |
New bandaids from Target (check!) |
Visiting Daddy's work office and having lunch with him (check!) |
Some girl time (check!) |
More time on the porch (check!) |
Seems like a nice—and much needed—leave. I love the photo of the boys in the boxes! That wedding reception venue looks amazing—tons of character. And the porch looks wonderful. We built our house 7 years ago and still have the would-be porch-door bolted shut bc it’s a two story drop. Hopefully after the adoption, we can start saving for a screen porch. If you have a builder recommendation, please let me know.
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